So I think I definitely did not get DreamJob, but things at my work remain unstable. I saw a job posting that definitely matches my resume, is with a big media corp (freelance to start, possibility to be brought into the corporate fold), and I had my package ready other than tweaking the cover letter, so… at 12:15 today I sent it over.
As of 4 pm I had an interview, at the end of next week. Eeeek. My competitive streak is such that I will go after the job. But the question is really, what do I think of going full time?
Not sure. All things being equal, I would wait another year at least. I can see Noah gaining in independence and I feel relatively sure that group daycare would not hurt him terribly. And yet… and yet, I would much rather ease him in slowly over a year, and preserve these days where we can follow his lead.
Also, I may have bitched a bit that Carl’s work is insane? How in heck could we balance two full time jobs? Of course single parents do, so there must be a way. I just am not completely confident I am that competent.
On the other hand, I am 36, and I need a broader and smarter resume if I want to continue to climb the editorial food chain. I am not always sure that I do, though. That’s the weird thing about me (us) – in my mind, I am a rebel freelancer moving from gig to gig. In reality, I really really really like it that a paycheque comes twice a month for the same amount each time. Plus then there’s the whole MFA/novel writing thing… sigh. Did I mention they emailed me again too?
But of course this is merely an interview. And so I will go and do my best. I have to admit that getting the interview was already a boost – I can live with a 25% success rate much better than a 0% success rate on the cover letter/resume package.
I realize that in numerous circles, I’d be strung up for writing what I’m about to write, but…
For me (please note the use of the word “me”), the daycare Jamie attends has been nothing less than a godsend. They have accreditation from the National Association for the Education of Young Children, they’ve had lesson plans for Jamie since he started at 4 months, the teachers are providing him with experiences and activities that I just can’t, and he is thriving, both developmentally and socially.
I truly truly believe that, if you can find a good one, one that is right for your child AND for you, daycare can be a marvelous educational tool in so many ways. I know there are lots of mothers who disagree, and that it’s not a choice they would make. I respect that. For me and Jamie, however, it’s been fabulous.
I guess what I’m saying is, keep doing what you’ve been doing: make the decision that makes the most sense for Noah and for you. It’s served you well, and you’ve got a terrific kiddo to show for it, one who I’ll bet will (after the inevitable adjustment period during which you will feel like absolute crap because it does suck mightily, I shall not lie) do beautifully in a daycare setting, if that’s the route you take.
Certain circles are stupid, then. :) I’m glad to hear about it; it makes me feel better about all the choices. Thank you!
I agree with Jennifer. Day care is great for kids’ socialisation skills. Apart from that, I don’t think I’d be sane without it!