Okay, I went to the highly recommended by a mother I trust, small, toddler to age 6 Montessori today to check it out.
And now, I get it. I felt that the place was inviting, calm, and child-centered. The facilities, while modest, were fine, with shaded and fenced nice outdoor space, good indoor space, and everything very clean. The teachers that interacted with Noah seemed great on first impression. Everything I heard was positive, even the stuff that is different from home. This place would be a big addition to Noah’s day.
So I get it. Finally. No other daycare I’ve been in – and I’ve been in a few – gave me that feeling. But now I get that there are some.
Even better, it’s within our price range – pricey, if we keep V. as I would very much like to and send Noah half days or something; totally reasonable if we don’t and just send him there full time. (In other words, V. is pricey :)).
I haven’t written a cheque yet ’cause I don’t have a job offer and very well may not get one. But I get it. This would be an amazing place. And if he doesn’t go just yet, I will find out how to reserve a spot for January and he will go then, ’cause this is a really good match.
So yes I get it!
It’s all about finding the RIGHT place. Which can be very very tricky. I’m thrilled you’ve got a school that makes you feel confident. :-)
YEAH!!! When we were interviewing sitters, I kept waiting for that. After interviewing several, I didn’t get it and I thought I was expecting too much, but afraid I was giving in and allowing my children to have sub-par care. We interviewed one last sitter and it clicked just the way you described. Her home was clean, but lived in and kid-friendly. The other children were happy, too. My biggest indicator was my oldest son. He is typically very shy, but upon walking in, he made himself at home, and even addressed the sitter! My husband I were both in shock and we knew that this place would be good for them. I am so glad you found a place for your little one that you don’t just like, but love. :-)