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Incompatible goals

Most of the time the parenting agenda and the inner children (not astral children, although them too I suppose – but I mean our system’s actual inner children, ones that grew up in the 70s – or didn’t grow up) … Continue reading

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Wednesday is hump day

Most of the time our particular style of co-sleeping (Liam in his bed as far past 3 am as I can push Lyria, and then he comes into bed which makes both him happy enough to often sleep right past … Continue reading

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Liam at 10 months

What can I tell you about Liam these days? First, he doesn’t stop moving. Pretty much ever. Or babbling a lot. When he’s in the car seat he gets his babbling time in, and his singing time. And he collects … Continue reading

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Education post 2: Why we picked public

I’m still frothing at the mouth at 11d and should stop so I’ll try to tackle this in order. So first, let me set some parameters. Yes, it is my job to get my child an education. However I do … Continue reading

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Education post 1

I want to write like 5 education posts right now, verbose ones. But this is in the moment: Laura at 11d is having a conversation about Thomas Friedman’s op-ed in the NYT and I have started commenting there. I am … Continue reading

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The smartz

I hope nothing in this post is too smarmy. This is stuff we have baggage about and it’s hard to talk about lofty goals and bitter experience without perhaps sounding a bit smarmy. So we got Noah’s preliminary report card … Continue reading

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Notes never written: Late to school

Dear school, Please accept my apologies for the lateness of my son this morning. You see, the day began with me perusing blogs on my iPhone while nursing my baby where I found this video: …which led to me having … Continue reading

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More on parenting and disagreeing

I’m posting this even though it probably should be email just because…I’m like that right now. It is tilting the pendulum a bit too far the other way, after my Previous Relationship, but ehn. This discussion started here on the … Continue reading

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Amazing boys

I realized today that I have now basically trained Liam to nap on me and nowhere else. This is not good, so we have to work on it. (Of course V. dealt with this the last time, so I could … Continue reading

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Oh frabjous day! Calloo! Callay!

Yay Noah’s prior nanny (V., in past blog posts), with whom we have been in touch since and she’s babysat and been a friend of the family and all, has agreed to be the boys’ nanny from Jan – Aug. … Continue reading

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