I'm 30 and female. I've been married since the summer of '94 to this wonderful person, best friend, soulmate, and lover - Carl. His name's not been disguised on the site anywhere because it's so hard to think of him as anyone else.
I work for a web based company, building community online - whatever that means. The job has both a production side which lets us be artist-creative, and a people side. I really, really like it.
I'm a writer, or trying to be. No, okay, I am. Part of the journey towards autheticity for me is about really writing.
I'm still "in the closet" if you will for the most part. My husband knows, and a few selected friends, most of them online, or else who live far enough away that I don't have to look them in the eye about it - yet. Being multiple is something that is really not understood by society yet, and I'm not prepared to risk everything to come out about it yet. This website is a bit of a test that way. If you recognize me don't tell me. :)
For that reason a lot of the names around here have been changed.